A submissive's Little Instruction Book

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dominantlife:

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

• Aftercare 101
• Aftercare For Dominants
• Coping With Emotional Subdrop
• Dom Drop
• How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
• Online Aftercare
• sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
• Subdrop and Aftercare
• Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

• Consent & BDSM
• Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

• 7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
• 12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
• 25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
• 30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
• 45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
• 50 Rules for Daddies
• 100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
• 101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
• Alternative Names For “Daddy”
• Alternative Domme Titles
• Aspects Of Control
• Asserting Ownership - Rules
• Daddy Up!
• Defining A Daddy Dom
• Dominants Need Training Also
• Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
• Help For New Doms
• How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
• How To Be A Good Dominant
• How to Find a Submissive
• Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
• New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
• Observations On Doms By A Submissive
• So you want to be a Dom?
• So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
• Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
• The Dom Commandments
• Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
• What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
• What does the title Daddy mean?
• What is a Daddy Dom?
• What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
• What It Means To Be A Dominant
• What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

• 6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
• 7 Common Types of Submissives
• 10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
• 10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
• 11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
• 26 Baby Girl Jobs
• 50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
• A Bottom’s Responsibility
• A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
• A Man Who Knows You…
• A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
• Acid Test For Subs
• Ask A Million And One Questions
• Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
• Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
• Care and feeding of Daddies
• Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
• Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
• Feminist Submissive
• Finding Your Dominant
• Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
• Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
• How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
• “How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
• How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
• How To Find A Dom
• How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
• I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
• Novice Submissives
• Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
• Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
• Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
• Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
• Submissive Pride
• Submissive Traits - Intelligence
• Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
• What is a Little?
• When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
• Why I call him Daddy
• Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

• 10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
• Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
• How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
• Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
• Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
• The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

• BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
• Body image & BDSM
• How to Get Over Feeling Sad
• Is BDSM normal?
• Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
• Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
• Meditation And Mindfulness
• On Cutting
• Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
• Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
• Tips for Recovering from Codependency
• What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
• Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

• 10 Habits of Happy Couples
• 10 Top Communication Mistakes
• 10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
• 12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
• 50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
• BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
• BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
• Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
• Communication Is Key
• Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
• Daddy Doms and their little girls
• Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
• Date Night In A Jar
• DD/lg In Public
• D/s and Domestication
• Factors That Make A Relationship
• Finding Love When You Least Expect It
• Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
• How To Be Present In Your Relationships
• How To Build A Healthy Relationship
• How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
• How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
• How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
• Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
• Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
• Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
• Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
• Searching for a D/s partner?
• Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
• Stop Arguments Before They Start
• The Rewards of a Submissive
• Types Of Relationship Insecurity
• Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
• What Is Real Love?
• When He Doesn’t Call
• Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

• Another life ruined because of the morality police
• Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
• Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
• Limits in BDSM
• What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

• 10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
• 10 Steps To Self Care
• 10 Ways To Be Happy
• 10 Truths To Live By
• Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
• How to be Yourself
• How To Deal With Your Enemies
• How To Ignore Haters
• How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
• How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
• Slut Shaming Explained
• Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
• What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

• 50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
• Basics of Breath Play
• D/s or Kinky Sex?
• Fetishes Explained
• How To Make A Girl Squirt
• How To Tell Your Son About Sex
• Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
• Sensual Biting
• Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
• Sex: Practical Details
• Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
• So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
• Squirting Educational Video
• Squirting Notes

Toys

• Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
• BDSM on a budget
• Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

• 10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
• 30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
• 40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
• Age Play: A Short Guide
• BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
• DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
• Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
• Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
• Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
• Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
• Glossary of BDSM Terms
• Guide To Blood Play
• Guide To Bruising
• Guide To Talking Dirty
• Guide To Wax Play
• How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
• How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
• How To Make A Comfort Box
• Introduction To BDSM
• Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
• Punishments in BDSM Relationships
• Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
• Some Thoughts On Rules
• The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
• The Need For Rules and Discipline
• Topping from the bottom

Always a reblog because why???

Education is Knowledge is

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SO much more organized than mine I really should let someone with the time have it. I have only been working on it for about 10 years.